Yesterday Facebook showed me my On This Day, and I recovered some old gratitude.
From December 12, 2010 —
Let me show you a piece of my heart. Let me show you what my gratitude looks like. Beware the feels.
We call that Homecoming.
A friend of ours took these pictures. He offered. Said he wouldn’t bother us, he just wanted to capture it. What a kindness.
We got up before 5 that morning. I made coffee and cocoa for five travel mugs to go. I drove us to the field. Emotionally, Cottrell Field was a complicated place. It was a large field with bleachers on one side and lined with rows of trees elsewhere. In the spring, the beauty of it was bittersweet, because the more redbud blooms, the more memorials. And I could not, for lack of counting skills and fear of a broken heart, tell you how many more trees were planted while we were there from 2006-2013.
Here’s a photo of a bit of Warrior’s Walk at Cottrell Field from Marne Community
They ended up burning the redbuds down due to ecological issues, and replaced them with crepe myrtles. They did this December 12, 2014.
To await your loved one’s return in a place where you are surrounded by the memory of those who did not return is significantly poignant.
Homecoming means sitting on bleachers for a long, long time. The Army takes the field, important people speak, the band plays. You wait. Finally, they release them and you wait more. You wait to be found and reclaimed.
The year 2010 was the longest, hardest year of my life. It wasn’t the last time he left home, or the longest deployment, it just felt like…well that one felt like roulette: How many times can I land on red?
Much as I hated seven hot years in Georgia, I wouldn’t undo it. It’s a significant chapter of my life, and of our marriage. I learned a lot about myself, and well, everyone else. I met some fantastic women. I really did enjoy the health insurance. Because of those seven years, I appreciate a thousand little usta-be nothings that are now, really, really something.
I don’t write about it much because the intensity is difficult to describe. I’m hella grateful it’s over.
The Mister still wears combat boots sometimes, but he comes home every night.
How’s that for gratitude on a Tuesday?
Sounds lovely. Happiness really is priceless
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Indeed, Peter 🙂
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Beautiful. That makes the sun shine through all that snow. Wonderful pics.
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Thank you 🙂 That snow pleases me no end. Gonna leave early to go to work, though. Cross your fingers for me?
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All digits are crossed.
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My driveway and street were the worst bits, roads weren’t bad at all. Course, now they’re freezing…
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What a lovely post. So happy your hubby is home to stay.
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Me too, thank you 🙂
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Thank you, and your Mister, for your service. Sometimes people forget it’s not just the active service person to whom we owe our thanks, but those who stay behind to keep the home fires burning deserve our thank yous as well.
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If you say so, though I did it out of love and service to him 🙂 Thank you.
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I love this Joey, thanks so much for sharing ❤
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Thank you both for your service. What a wonderful tribute to your long awaited Welcome Home.
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Thank you, Herschel 🙂
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I am hearting this to the max. ❤ ❤ ❤ +
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Thank you 🙂
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That is real gratitude and it is just as poignant then as it is today. 🙂 While I was reading and looking at the photos I was thinking about all the people who are griping about something today that is of no importance. I returned something and I had two senior adults behind me arguing who got to the line first. They just need to know what a ‘real’ problem is and get over themselves. Thanks for that peek.
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There’s always an argument to be made that someone has it worse. I myself have countless imaginary problems. ❤ Thank you.
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Sweet photos. Finding the good parts of even difficult times is a huge key to happiness. Thanks for giving us this peek.
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What a beautiful post of gratitude! Thank you for sharing.
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Thank you 🙂
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I love this post. I love the pictures. I love all of it. Thank you (and your whole family) and the Mister for all you’ve done for us and for our country. I’m so glad that’s a part of your past and you get to hug the Mister every night, in or out of the boots. 😉
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Hubba hubba I say 😛
Thank you 🙂 I’m glad you loved it!
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Like Facebook, there should be a little heart ^up there^ that I can click on. I can’t imagine how hard it is for family members of those in the military…to watch them leave more than once, to wonder how they are doing every day, to feel relief when they return home. Please thank The Mister for his service to our country. I’m so glad, for your sake and that of the kids, that he does come home every night. Truly something to be grateful for! Thanks for sharing your heart and the photos, Joey.
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Thank you for your thoughtful comment. I am so fortunate 🙂
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❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ (There are a lot of you.)
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And you’ve left a heart for every one of us ❤ Thank you!
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This is so beautiful and moving, Joey. Thank you for sharing your gratitude and joy. Wonderful pictures! 🙂 💛
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Thanks. He did a good job of capturing it 🙂
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Yes, he did. It’s so wonderful to have a reminder of such a special homecoming. 🙂
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It really is. I appreciate it more now than I did at the time. ❤
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Oh, the sacrifice of military families, I’ve known so many, and I don’t know how they hold up ! Your pics tell a story, and it’s a lovely one. Thanks for sharing, we can feel the feels. 💘
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Thank you for sharin my feels ❤
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Thanks for writing about it. Wait, I got sumtin in meh eye…. This is good to see and read about.
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I warned ya bout the feels 🙂
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Oh, Joey…your photos bring a tear to my eyes…happy tears for your family. I know exactly how that feels. So many deployments, and then the wonderful homecomings…thank God. … The hugs, yes those hugs are the best feeling ever. ❤
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Yes, you DO know. Knowing that you know makes me feel it doubly. It is the best. The absolute best ❤
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Whew. Nothing to add, Joey. Beautiful post.
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Just beautiful 💓
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Thanks 🙂
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Thanks to the Mister from us as well and for you and your family for doing without him so often and for loving and supporting him and each other. Your Christmas will be merry because you’re together!
janet
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Thanks for sharing this, you’ve got me tearing up. ❤
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This was so touching, Joey. The expression on your face in the first photo says it all … colliding emotions. I’m so glad that you were one of the lucky ones ❤
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Me too, thanks ❤
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Those pictures are simply beautiful. Thank you for putting those out there.
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Beautiful :), they burned down all the trees? That makes me sad.
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Thanks.
Yeah, they had a blight, there was soil erosion, lots of problems, so they had to replace them.
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Bummer
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Beautiful photos! I thank you and your family for the service to our country….especially the hub. You made me smile and cry at the same time! Merry Christmas to you!
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Thanks, April 🙂
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This made me tear up when I went through it with you first time and saw those pictures and today your gratitude just brings it back in poignancy. I wish I could love this…
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This is so lovely Joey, it brought a lump to my throat. 🙂
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This was a fabulous reminder of a special day and such a wonderful set of family photos, Joey!
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